Don't call me newbie

[threemonkeys]

I have just confirmed that I am running the item for first time sf con goers at Conspiracy 2. Now I have been involved in these a few times in the past. They usually go something like this: "it isn't just the programme items", "people talk funny", "socialise/party hard", "look after yourself". Then it devolves into a bunch of hardened con veterans telling tales of past exploits more designed to scare than inform. That is all well and good, but I really think something is missing from these talks. For example, I have never seen anybody attempt to reassure new to con folks that their expression of being a fan is valid. It can be intimidating when you hear somebody talking about something you don't know about. You may doubt that you should be there. I want to reassure people that they are welcome and genuinely help them over the culture shock.

So I am asking you. What is the one thing you most wish you had been told at the start of your first con? Alternatively, what is the one thing that you were told that benefited you the most?

Comments

[mynxii.livejournal.com]

Hi - i'll happily share the documentation I'm putting together, which atm consists of an FAQ, that i am hoping is friendly, and also a glossary for just terms people have never heard before or, are unsure of.

I agree with you on the definition of 'first con' panels - although I've been to a couple of really good ones that were lots of laughter and talking about fun stuff.

[threemonkeys.livejournal.com]

Thank you, that would be very much appreciated. I'm preparing a talk which I suspect in itself won't be much use, but I'm happy to send you the bullet point version of what I think needs to be covered. Or at least what I think of in the next few days as I'm aware Swancon is only two weeks away - good luck with that, I wish I could be there.